Sexy fun times are a blast—but they’re also when women are at greatest risk for a urinary tract infection (UTI).
Fun friction can push bacteria from the vaginal or anal area toward the urethra, giving those microbes a direct path into the bladder. Once you’ve had one UTI, your risk of having another increases significantly. And we have now found that UTIs can increase your risk of other health issues, including rheumatoid arthritis people with certain genetics.
I learned about UTIs firsthand on a long trip. I wasn’t drinking enough water or urinating often enough to flush out stray bacteria—and ended up with my first UTI ever. Years later, I woke up the day after sex with that all-too-familiar burning sensation. I realized I needed a reliable, pleasant preventive routine so I could keep enjoying intimacy without dreading what might come next.
Here’s what I do:

🍸 Cranberry Cocktail (UTI-Friendly “Fun” Drink)
Ingredients:
- 1 shot gin or vodka (optional—omit for alcohol-free version)
- 1–2 oz pure unsweetened cranberry juice
- ½–1 tsp D-Mannose powder
- 6–8 drops monk fruit extract (or to taste)
- Water or sparkling water to taste (I usually double the total volume)
- Slice of lime, for garnish
Directions:
- In a glass, combine the cranberry juice, D-Mannose, and monk fruit extract.
- Add your spirit (or skip if you’re avoiding alcohol).
- Top with water or sparkling water. Stir until the D-Mannose is fully dissolved.
- Garnish with a lime slice—and enjoy before or after your sexy fun time.
Why Cranberry and D-Mannose?
- Cranberry juice contains proanthocyanidins, compounds that help prevent E. coli bacteria from sticking to the bladder wall—making your body’s natural flushing action more effective.
- D-Mannose is a simple sugar that binds to E. coli in the urinary tract, helping flush them out in urine rather than allowing them to stick around and cause trouble.
Both are well-tolerated and safe for regular use. That said, while most UTIs are caused by E. coli, not all are. I take UTIs seriously because they can lead to kidney infections if untreated. If you’re unsure, it’s always best to get a urinary culture to guide care.
If you include alcohol, use it sparingly—some women with recurrent UTIs or who experience hot flashes find it irritating. The mocktail version is just as effective and a safer option for many.
I’m very passionate about the importance of urinary health in women—and I even helped formulate a powerful cranberry supplement designed to support it. If you’d like to learn more about how cranberry works, here’s a deeper dive I wrote for Bold Botanica: Cranberry PACs for Urinary Health.
I know this blog may feel a bit more lighthearted than my usual posts on herbs, supplements, and whole health—but I wanted to share it because I want my patients to know: I’m completely comfortable talking about sexual health.
As a naturopathic doctor working primarily with women, I’ve seen how relieved my patients are when they realize they can bring up intimate issues—without shame, embarrassment, or judgment.
So please—enjoy your sexy fun times, use simple strategies like post-sex urination and this cranberry cocktail, and know that you always have a safe space here to talk about your whole-body health… no matter how personal it may feel.
Laurell, I’m always confident in your advice, thank you for the science behind these products, Charley
Thanks, Charley! It is great to hear from you. And thanks for the vote of confidence!
Thanks it looks inviting and healthy!!
Thanks, I had to make sure it was a sugar free recipe since so many cranberry drinks are loaded with sugar.
Hi Dr Laurell- I visited you a few times in Fayetteville and had met at ONF. My wife and I have since moved to Tupelo,MS. Go figure… It’s a great little town and closer to our families.
I was wondering if you have any suggestions for prostate health and maybe what types of foods contribute/to be avoided for BPH?
I believe cranberry is good for that as well
Thanks, Steven

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Hi Steven,
So glad to hear from you—and I’m glad to know you’re enjoying life in Tupelo! There are a few different types of BPH, so the most effective approach can vary from person to person. In general, eating a lot of meat may aggravate symptoms, while incorporating soy foods may help inhibit prostate tissue growth. Alcohol can be an irritant for men with BPH so try to mocktail version of this recipe. Regular exercise is also important to support circulation and avoid pelvic stagnation. If you ever want more personalized support, I’m offering remote consultations as well.
Take care, Laurell
Good blog